Hello, Again!

I know, I know, it's been a while...but I've been kind of uninspired lately.  Not in a bad way, there just haven't been any dating faux paux since back-pat-gate. But, since I'm me, and I'm not one to disappoint I do have something to share:  I'm going to yet another wedding with M. I swear I'm going to start charging for my services soon!  It's kind of a strange situation, M and I are very good friends, for all intensive purposes (weddings, births, funerals) I'm part of his family.  We always have fun together and I love weddings, so this is really like a win-win for both of us.  He doesn't have to bring someone that could be a hit or miss date and I get to attend a wedding and laugh for a few hours.  Yes, I understand that M is my ex, but we dated 10 years ago! 

Here's the dilemma:  Do I tell golfer I'm going to a wedding with M?  Do I just say I'm going to a friends wedding?  (I have no idea who's getting married, btw) Do I not say anything at all and when golfer asks me to hang out on the 1st Saturday he's back from Florida, I tell him I have a wedding? Do I even have to tell golfer anything, being that he's not my boyfriend? Or should I ask him if he minds that I'm going to a wedding as someone else's 'date'?

While you think about that, I'd like to point out that weather permitting, I'm meeting M for dinner on Wednesday (only if it rains and softball is cancelled) and he hasn't seen me since Christmas (aka 32 lbs ago) so this should be interesting...What's even better, is that my horoscope for Sunday (when M and I discussed dinner) looked like this:

Exes are exes for a reason...sure there's A LOT I would've changed back in the day, knowing what I know now, I just have to use that knowledge and apply it to future relationships to make them as successful as possible.